Wednesday, April 26, 2017

familiar but a bit strange

A few students I don't know and most are the ones I have taught before.Most of them have lost their pure smiles,replica oakley sunglasses, appear a bit serious.I know they are trying to adapt to the new environment,even a bit nervous with pressure.They look a bit strange as well.Maybe they have grown up,or they fall far from me now.A few of them,I have taught for three years.It's a rare thing to me.
The year with them of being the mainteacher really brings me a very nice year.Those photos are still kept in my zone,never delete forever.Because we will change,but memories won't.They can stop time.
Today,I mentioned my salary in class,in fact,I am not sure why I would say this.Just to show them that I will try to teach them in spite of low salary.It has exactly effected my enthusiasm in my teaching.However,I must change such a thought,facing such pure and careful faces,how can I do things only thinking of myself?
I have ever tried imagining what I will do in free days after retirement,after serving grandson.If I can still live in this world at that time,nfl jerseys cheap, I would go on to teach English for those who need,charge them no money,free classes.That's a good deed!

Fighting!Jay.

Yesterday,we finished watching The Voice of China until midnight,and even couldn't help going on The True Voice.I broke my former plan once again,cheap jerseys, which led to our getting up too late this morning.These days,without Jay's songs,son can't do homework well.He said that he wouldn't feel sleepy with those songs.Thanks to his doing this,I can enjoy Jay's songs all the time at home,coming back to several years ago,sweet days.
I have nearly listened to all his songs and thought most are perfect.Getting much encouragement and a relaxing mind in his songs,nice song words take to me to a cleaner world.I know he is living more than in one world.No matter whether the song is sad or happy,both are light.Yeah,cheap Oakley sunglasses, we need such days.It's his life experience and music talent that make him special.Especially his ability of fantastic imagination and unawares makes him a secret.
No matter how dark the society is,no matter what the end of the game will be,many are behind him.It is already enough for us to have such a chance to see him so many days.I think no body would care whether he can win,nor would he himself.In fact,nobody can compare with him.His eyes look so deep,really special while he is thinking in sillence.
Such a cool man with a sillent face,but with a delicate feelings,a rich inner world,a kind and strong heart...He is a lovely man with sincerity.
God is fair to everyone.Jay experienced hardships in childhood and pains from a broken family,cheap nfl hats, so he has become out of common,a strong will and take life with a mind different from others in life.But I can understand him,a bit similar.

Friday, April 21, 2017

Feeling so confused before.

We always wanna get the best advice and opinions from someone else while facing confusions.But I am sure one of the most effective ways is to experience.
Now I have understood a bit.cheap nfl hats, The ways of getting on with outsiders are completely different from with family.I thought it was the best to be kind and try to repect others for a good relationship.So I thought scrambling for honors with others,troubling others and profitting at others' expense were the things awful men could do.Undoing those above to win others' respectation was also my thought.Of course,I don't like doing those either.
But now I find what I have done is meanless at all,because others only regard you a timid and a foolish person.Instead,they won't respect you,they will ignore or even bully you.Everything beautiful in my mind suddenly lost all brilliancy.Originally,cheap oakley sunglasses, to get the true respect from others isn't important at all,false politeness is already enough,for a true heart hardly exists between outsiders.So I will never feel sorry or ashamed to any of them from now.
Between family is complely different,we must need true emotions.No pay,no gain.As long as paying,you must gain.Because of love,family come together.Although there are also so many pities in marriages or blood relations,we have no routes of retreat,even never think about those.Because real happiness is from whole hearts.No regrets!In family,true respect and love are the most important.
Put all my experiences together,cheap jerseys, I thought about them carefully today.Now I am clear.I know I am stupid person while getting on with others.I have wasted too much of my true heart.

Feet massage.

Thinking of my last teaching Grade Nine five years ago,when I began having knee problem.Just during the last two weeks,cheap nfl jerseys, when I was about to finish teaching of that year,something wrong was with my knees.I got such bad mood and suffered the pain.Standing in front of the teachers' desk too long made me so uncomfortable,but I kept on.Because my students were my sunshine in work at that time,and it was a great pleasure to have classes with them.Also,only two weeks left,I couldn't leave them alone.Of course,I also dislike to let other colleagues come my home to see me.I hate to trouble anyone.So I persisted in working.I made it.
The next term,I was informed to go to a far primary school to support teaching.I said nothing and kept working,cheap snapbacks, although my knees weren't well at all.Luckily,I met a good headmaster who just gave me very simple work and a cool man teacher who could drive us to work.They will be in my memories all my life,even if we didn't contact again.
Still remembering I couldn't accept husband to massage my feet at the beginning of marriage.Because I thought it was a poor work.After my knees had problem,he offered to massage feet for me.I said it was useless.He told me it would help a lot.So he began from then.
In a second,a whole five years is gone.My knees were almost well.It means that husband has massaged feet for me for five years.Son from primary to junior high school.However,cheap replica oakleys, everything warm never changed.He still likes dancing funnily like a kid around the house.Son is still doing his homework very carefully beside me,merely becomes much cooler.I say to myself never afraid of difficulties outside,because I have had enough.

Now,husband says he seems to have something undone if he hasn't massaged feet for me every day.And I have already got into a habit of being massaged by him.He says he will go on doing that for me as long as his hands have strength.I have always thought I am one the the most happiest woman having warm husband and son.We use heart to communicate with each other,while home is our most substantial castle.
Having the most love from parents when small,and now being a queen of family.I have got the love from my most important persons in the world,wholesale nfl jerseys, so now,I feel like having the whole world.

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

you can boost your self-confidence if you fill your bucket full

Nobody is perfect; everyone has his or her own strengths or weaknesses. It all related to your attitude being positive or negative, which makes a huge difference between high or low self-esteem.

There are some interesting cases:

Some lucky ones are excellent for being themselves. However, they are stuck by their family background, which are poor or parents break-up relationship.

Actually, why don’t you think from positive side, you could be  more independent than anyone else who have to reply on their parents for having a good job sort of, cheap oakley sunglasses, or you could be stronger for coping with difficulties as you have experienced the worst time in your life.

 Probably you should be very proud of yourself that one day you could use your talents for changing the life of yourself rather than waiting and complaining how bad fortune you’ve got.


Also some people were born of competitive disadvantages, they could not change the situation, but they could change their attitude for being a very different person.

I know quite a few guys in my dancing place, surprisingly; they are shorter than me, which means they are shorter than 160cm. I can tell from their facial expression and the way they treat women, some guys are worried about their height very much, they are too scared to invite a girl dance like most normally height guys do. But a few guys practice dancing very hard, in the end they dance with girls with self-confidence.

I was very impressed by one man, my god, he might be the shortest Aussie I have ever seen, must be 155cm below I guess, but I felt he was the centre, the prince of the night in the dancing hall as he invited all the pretty girls danced with no hesitation, which was full of self-confidence. Quite a lot of handsome tall guys with poor dancing skills couldn’t compete with him at all.

How powerful  positive thinking was as he focused on his strengths, cheap jerseys, what he could make it better by using his own effort ( good dancing skill, perfect body shape ( being gym or exercises) rather than the one he could never change(height).



And also one thing catches my attention. In China, generally speaking, a high-educated girl won’t marry a guy who has only completed high school education unless he’s very rich. A guy with a blue collar job might be too scared to chase up a girl who works in the office.

However, in Australia, marriage won’t be judged by what qualifications you’ve got. An electrician or a plumber is very easily getting married with a pretty high educated girl who works in the office. As the buys won’t be told: “You are useless, you are nothing and you are nobody” by the whole society just because they are not entering the Uni, but definitely are very capable of doing practical work.



Again in China, a lot of students are living under the negative environment, as they have been taught that if they couldn’t enter into a famous uni, they are doomed to be a looser. Not only from the teachers but also they get that impression from family members and friends.



I know it is extremely hard for you to stand up by telling yourself that you have your own special talent apart from study and being a good student. But if you can’t see the strengths of yourself, if you can’t convince yourself that you have talents to the society, how can you change your fate? And no one else can help you except yourself.

Therefore, fill your bucket full with positive thinking, pay attention to what you’ve got rather than you haven’t, focus on your strengths rather than weaknesses, which is essential for you live with high self-confidence and being successful.

once

  I once read a article with its title " thanks for giving me windy joy".
    Initially, i was confused about windy joy, wholesale nfl jerseys, the joy likes the breeze, so fast and light which you are incapable of holding.
    What kind of windy joy could be?  Actually, in-depth, it is not the joy, it expresses the pain containing the unwillingness forced to be undertake.
    Thanks for giving me windy joy which means thanks for exposing the extreme truth for not being with me. It leaves too much to once filled longing, but at last paralleling is the best way.
    What kind of author in such a way to roundly amplify its emotion?
    I once left a sigh to it. What i thought was if it had been in vain, it would have better been unhappened.
    But now, with the aging and experience, i think the author is brave in which to see through the fact and accept it. Nothing is pitiful cau the objective truth is there.
    Thanks for giving me windy joy which tears up the faint beauty once being whitewashed by you.
    Thanks for giving me windy joy, cheap nfl hats, the breeze is gone.

A copy of good presentation

   Sometimes, we need own the ability of making a copy of good presentation to boss or customer to tell them what you want to express. I thought it should be easy before I did a copy of presentation to big boss. Actually, cheap snapbacks, it's not easy job when I started to prepare it, because I didn't catch what was really big boss expected within a short time. I just did this according my understanding and I was a little confused what kind of data and what style of presentations I should present during the whole process. What's more, due to I wanted to show more information that made the presentation losing the key point which it should have. When I finished it, I was not happy with it. Not to mention, it will win the favor of the boss. To be frank, it's not a copy of eligible presentation to me.
    With the concept of one of predecessors, if you take more concentration on how to complete the job in hand and neglect how to present it to your boss, you will possible lose the opportunity of getting promotion. It's the reason why some people who didn't more professional skills can get more chance getting promotion than others. It's because they can make a copy of wonderful representation or report. I'm not sure these words whether it's right or not, cheap replica oakleys, but, I believe it certainly has a point.