Tuesday, June 27, 2017

do you like your current job ?

Do you go to work with passion?, if not , you don't love your job .
           Be confused by regular tasks without any passion , Cheap jerseys china, there is no interest when the job become the tool for money . What caused the lasted power for making progress on work ? In my view, that is the sense of achievement .
Most of people around me pursue willingly the steady job ,  for instance , the teacher beyond the national system ,For whom attracted by the everlasting income from financial office . Do they love their job much ? According to the experiences the one in one place worked more than five years will annoy much , will the one be passionate if he has spent more than 10 years on the same job ?
During the 11 years I’ve left college ,I had experienced 4 kind of  jobs, in which different reasons pressed me for changing the one to another . However , the one I carried on for 5 years deserved much for the time , because I loved it much . the more love , the more passion on it . for the love , the happiness  I gained from the unconditional respect after I paid, which is the most strong power boost me to the high step. On the contray , the more attention you paid on money, the less you will get on the amount of money. that is my experience , what is your mind on the issue?
 Now I ’m serving in a private school and I'm gonna to serve for more than 10 years , during these years I will get further education . the main reason made me to have this decision is I like to work as a teacher. and also , Cheap nfl jerseys, my kids can have the study with me together. Although the salary is less than I got in company , I love it still.

How to use your pieces time

Nowadays the network is development very fast , nfl jerseys cheap, and there are massive information you can search as long as you need  .  most of time I like to watch internet movies ,  TV drama and  read electronic books  , and internet shopping .......
 it is convenient for our life since internet development.  you no need go outside ,you just place order at home by  internet ,then you can get your wanted, ten years ago, I think all of this is just a dream , now it is really amazing , you just prepare money,  lots of consume are waiting for you ,
sometime ,I did not like the internet because I took too much time read internet information , my pieces time almost spent in read internet information .  and these information is not useful for me ,  I think I should use my pieces time to do more significant things . so I have started to read books in library instead of electric books , and stop to read gossip news.  I should make a plan what information I need read , cheap hats, that I can get useful knowledge from internet  in a short time .  maybe there are more people have my same opinion .

Argument

Today, I had a quarrel with our manager over a matter from work in office, firstly, Wholesale jerseys nfl, I tried my best to present my opinion in a more clear and civilized manner in order to get my points across, unfortunately, I had to give up the naive thought because our manager was so excited that I had no time to express even a whole sentence. There was no surprised that all behaviors our manager did were his own style, we have got accustomed to this sort of expression. But, under such circumstances, I still couldn't hold myself to talk back to him in almost the same way. We took much time to clarify our idea and took less time to listen the point of view from each other based on different stance. We both knew if we leave things as they are, we could end up with a bad result, but, when you were on burning fire, it was difficult to reach any agreements to both sides. So we had to postpone this discussion to afternoon and made some concessions each other when we cooled off. It's a terrible day for me and I really didn't want to experience anymore.
    Tomorrow will be a nice beginning of working day, I don't worry about the relationship with our manager in the following time, not even me but other colleges who under his name both went through similar experiences. Anyway, cheap nfl hats, our manager is a nice man except his extremely quick temper

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

you can't keep up with me

Last Saturday, I met one friend from Anhui, China and he told me how busy his little daughter was.

She is having dancing classes, cheap nfl hats, piano lessons and learning calligraphy in her free time.

That’s the same as my niece in a previous one article I wrote.

Two of them are not unique; the majority of Chinese students are in the same situation when they started kindergarten.

To be worse, I’ve heard from another niece, nowadays, rich moms are supposed to stay at home accompanying study for one single kid.

They are so busy sending kids to the school, picking them up, helping homework and taking them to the weekend, after school classes.

It’s like mom’s whole life is given to the little one, all she does for providing her kid with the better life of future.

Again, when the daughter grows up, the girl has to prepare for her own child.

Where’s the life of girls? Is that ladies destiny, looking after children from one generation to the other?

I can’t deny a great mom like you, and I respect you very much of sacrificing time for your child.

But I just find it a bit unfair to yourself, because there will be a big gap if the young one keeps learning new things, whereas mom stays at the same level.

I read one story regarding a Chinese writer, Kathy who is in her 20s.

She’s got a bit annoyed with her mom when Kathy was a little one; her mom was so strict to her as if study the only important thing in her life, nfl jerseys cheapall Kathy got criticism no matter how hard she has tried.

Her mom spent all the time and put a huge effort to make a perfect daughter; mom thought that’s the best way for Kathy to grow.

When Kathy turns to 20, she finds there’s no personal space; her mom cares too much about her life even when she stays overseas.

“Have you had enough food? If you don’t have money, please let me know, I will send to you ASAP.” That’s what Kathy heard from her mom through phone calls every day.

Whereas Kathy doesn’t need money from her mom, she wants to be independent, and she can look after herself.

As long as her mom has own life being a happy woman, that’s all Kathy expects.

However, Kathy’s life is her mom’s life; her mom is used to it since Kathy was born.

She worries about Kathy: “You’d better find a proper job instead of being a writer, why you don’t have a boyfriend?”

This gives Kathy high pressure which frustrates her very much.

Moms, probably when your child turns to 20, he or she might have the same feeling as Kathy if you don’t have your own life.

I don’t think it is necessary to request a child learn so many things, because everyone’s doing the same. In the end, he or she might just to be average.

Pick up a couple of stuff which daughter or son loves and enjoys, probably one day your kid will be above average because while others are learning so many things, cheap hatsyours focuses on one thing and makes it the best.

Independence is an essential skill a child should master if he or she wants to be a winner in this competitive world, so please don’t stick with your kid, give her enough space to grow.

Then you can find yourself more time preparing to go back to the workforce if you like, or pursuing hobbies, probably one day your interests can turn into a career, please just don’t waste precious time.

The world is changing so fast; you can’t believe it.

Nowadays, a high education degree can’t guarantee a good job; one can’t stand out with average skills.

Only let children do what they love which is unique, they can be above others, they might make a fortune in the future, no one knows.

Last weekend, I had an online course regarding how to use Wechat subscription to attract more followers.

I was shocked how smart the lecturer, he seems to me a money-making machine.

I paid 100CNY ($20) for 14 lessons, the time I joined, there were 3500 students, within a few hours, students have reached 6000, up to now, there are 9705 attendants.

Let’s figure out, how much gross profit he can gain 9705*100CNY= 970,500 CNY ($194,100), that’s only for five online classes (total 3 hours), the rest lessons are coming, and people can still join after finish all the lessons.

The revenue is unlimited.

Now you can understand how important if a person follows his passion, the lecturer failed entering into a university.

To start with, he was a telephone salesman with little basic salary 1500CNY($300) a month.

But he was fascinated with Wechat subscription, and then he found another job helping a company to find Wechat followers.

Since then, his fortune has been changed dramatically.

Now he’s running own business. He can make so much profit from a few hours’ video lessons, but that’s the experience, knowledge, Cheap jerseyspassion, time and effort he put for the past few years.

Probably his mom never understand it can be regard as a proper job; the truth is that the world is changing, this is a new media age.

Let’s learn new things, and don’t be so strict to our children because the world is changing.

If we remain the same, we will be out of date, and that’s very wrong if we request our children to do things under our standard.

Moms, please don’t design a life for the next generation, give them the freedom to choose, let them do what they like, that’s the best reward we can offer them.