Tuesday, June 27, 2017

do you like your current job ?

Do you go to work with passion?, if not , you don't love your job .
           Be confused by regular tasks without any passion , Cheap jerseys china, there is no interest when the job become the tool for money . What caused the lasted power for making progress on work ? In my view, that is the sense of achievement .
Most of people around me pursue willingly the steady job ,  for instance , the teacher beyond the national system ,For whom attracted by the everlasting income from financial office . Do they love their job much ? According to the experiences the one in one place worked more than five years will annoy much , will the one be passionate if he has spent more than 10 years on the same job ?
During the 11 years I’ve left college ,I had experienced 4 kind of  jobs, in which different reasons pressed me for changing the one to another . However , the one I carried on for 5 years deserved much for the time , because I loved it much . the more love , the more passion on it . for the love , the happiness  I gained from the unconditional respect after I paid, which is the most strong power boost me to the high step. On the contray , the more attention you paid on money, the less you will get on the amount of money. that is my experience , what is your mind on the issue?
 Now I ’m serving in a private school and I'm gonna to serve for more than 10 years , during these years I will get further education . the main reason made me to have this decision is I like to work as a teacher. and also , Cheap nfl jerseys, my kids can have the study with me together. Although the salary is less than I got in company , I love it still.

How to use your pieces time

Nowadays the network is development very fast , nfl jerseys cheap, and there are massive information you can search as long as you need  .  most of time I like to watch internet movies ,  TV drama and  read electronic books  , and internet shopping .......
 it is convenient for our life since internet development.  you no need go outside ,you just place order at home by  internet ,then you can get your wanted, ten years ago, I think all of this is just a dream , now it is really amazing , you just prepare money,  lots of consume are waiting for you ,
sometime ,I did not like the internet because I took too much time read internet information , my pieces time almost spent in read internet information .  and these information is not useful for me ,  I think I should use my pieces time to do more significant things . so I have started to read books in library instead of electric books , and stop to read gossip news.  I should make a plan what information I need read , cheap hats, that I can get useful knowledge from internet  in a short time .  maybe there are more people have my same opinion .

Argument

Today, I had a quarrel with our manager over a matter from work in office, firstly, Wholesale jerseys nfl, I tried my best to present my opinion in a more clear and civilized manner in order to get my points across, unfortunately, I had to give up the naive thought because our manager was so excited that I had no time to express even a whole sentence. There was no surprised that all behaviors our manager did were his own style, we have got accustomed to this sort of expression. But, under such circumstances, I still couldn't hold myself to talk back to him in almost the same way. We took much time to clarify our idea and took less time to listen the point of view from each other based on different stance. We both knew if we leave things as they are, we could end up with a bad result, but, when you were on burning fire, it was difficult to reach any agreements to both sides. So we had to postpone this discussion to afternoon and made some concessions each other when we cooled off. It's a terrible day for me and I really didn't want to experience anymore.
    Tomorrow will be a nice beginning of working day, I don't worry about the relationship with our manager in the following time, not even me but other colleges who under his name both went through similar experiences. Anyway, cheap nfl hats, our manager is a nice man except his extremely quick temper

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

you can't keep up with me

Last Saturday, I met one friend from Anhui, China and he told me how busy his little daughter was.

She is having dancing classes, cheap nfl hats, piano lessons and learning calligraphy in her free time.

That’s the same as my niece in a previous one article I wrote.

Two of them are not unique; the majority of Chinese students are in the same situation when they started kindergarten.

To be worse, I’ve heard from another niece, nowadays, rich moms are supposed to stay at home accompanying study for one single kid.

They are so busy sending kids to the school, picking them up, helping homework and taking them to the weekend, after school classes.

It’s like mom’s whole life is given to the little one, all she does for providing her kid with the better life of future.

Again, when the daughter grows up, the girl has to prepare for her own child.

Where’s the life of girls? Is that ladies destiny, looking after children from one generation to the other?

I can’t deny a great mom like you, and I respect you very much of sacrificing time for your child.

But I just find it a bit unfair to yourself, because there will be a big gap if the young one keeps learning new things, whereas mom stays at the same level.

I read one story regarding a Chinese writer, Kathy who is in her 20s.

She’s got a bit annoyed with her mom when Kathy was a little one; her mom was so strict to her as if study the only important thing in her life, nfl jerseys cheapall Kathy got criticism no matter how hard she has tried.

Her mom spent all the time and put a huge effort to make a perfect daughter; mom thought that’s the best way for Kathy to grow.

When Kathy turns to 20, she finds there’s no personal space; her mom cares too much about her life even when she stays overseas.

“Have you had enough food? If you don’t have money, please let me know, I will send to you ASAP.” That’s what Kathy heard from her mom through phone calls every day.

Whereas Kathy doesn’t need money from her mom, she wants to be independent, and she can look after herself.

As long as her mom has own life being a happy woman, that’s all Kathy expects.

However, Kathy’s life is her mom’s life; her mom is used to it since Kathy was born.

She worries about Kathy: “You’d better find a proper job instead of being a writer, why you don’t have a boyfriend?”

This gives Kathy high pressure which frustrates her very much.

Moms, probably when your child turns to 20, he or she might have the same feeling as Kathy if you don’t have your own life.

I don’t think it is necessary to request a child learn so many things, because everyone’s doing the same. In the end, he or she might just to be average.

Pick up a couple of stuff which daughter or son loves and enjoys, probably one day your kid will be above average because while others are learning so many things, cheap hatsyours focuses on one thing and makes it the best.

Independence is an essential skill a child should master if he or she wants to be a winner in this competitive world, so please don’t stick with your kid, give her enough space to grow.

Then you can find yourself more time preparing to go back to the workforce if you like, or pursuing hobbies, probably one day your interests can turn into a career, please just don’t waste precious time.

The world is changing so fast; you can’t believe it.

Nowadays, a high education degree can’t guarantee a good job; one can’t stand out with average skills.

Only let children do what they love which is unique, they can be above others, they might make a fortune in the future, no one knows.

Last weekend, I had an online course regarding how to use Wechat subscription to attract more followers.

I was shocked how smart the lecturer, he seems to me a money-making machine.

I paid 100CNY ($20) for 14 lessons, the time I joined, there were 3500 students, within a few hours, students have reached 6000, up to now, there are 9705 attendants.

Let’s figure out, how much gross profit he can gain 9705*100CNY= 970,500 CNY ($194,100), that’s only for five online classes (total 3 hours), the rest lessons are coming, and people can still join after finish all the lessons.

The revenue is unlimited.

Now you can understand how important if a person follows his passion, the lecturer failed entering into a university.

To start with, he was a telephone salesman with little basic salary 1500CNY($300) a month.

But he was fascinated with Wechat subscription, and then he found another job helping a company to find Wechat followers.

Since then, his fortune has been changed dramatically.

Now he’s running own business. He can make so much profit from a few hours’ video lessons, but that’s the experience, knowledge, Cheap jerseyspassion, time and effort he put for the past few years.

Probably his mom never understand it can be regard as a proper job; the truth is that the world is changing, this is a new media age.

Let’s learn new things, and don’t be so strict to our children because the world is changing.

If we remain the same, we will be out of date, and that’s very wrong if we request our children to do things under our standard.

Moms, please don’t design a life for the next generation, give them the freedom to choose, let them do what they like, that’s the best reward we can offer them.

Monday, May 22, 2017

Pay tribute to the SAN Antonio spurs

West of game 4, with 11 minutes and 6 seconds ginobili ball breakthrough toward the area, the moment he seemed suddenly young 10 years old, back to the era of fresh clothes NuMa are invincible.
The layup, the ball, ginobili fell off the field. The ball, cheap jerseyshe used up all the best, although the game attribution has been difficult to reverse, but, as the commendation in advance of the giant - people, only when to give up fighting loses, as long as the stick to fight, will not lose.
The spurs out, but when they are out of ammunition persevere until the last minute, this is their pride, whether young or temples dye cream China has never changed.
The spurs' fans are happy because the team rarely let their fans down, and 20 years of solidity in NBA history are unique. The spurs as if free in time, jump out worldly CARES, and light, a sweeping victory, we have got their powerful, habit to ignore their efforts.
This season the spurs had the very big change, compared to last season, their rotation less dior, less David west, more important is less Duncan, it was the spurs in the past 19 years of giant bo sea purple jade chopstick frame Jin Liang. Although the spurs have aldric, he is not Duncan and will never be Duncan. How could the first big forward be easily copied? The spurs in the era of Duncan play inside and outside, inside outside subsidiary, and in this season is still to play inside and outside, is supplemented in the outside, cheap nfl hatsthis is not a simple change.
Leonard rise a surplus huge level data, let us can easily ignore popovich and spurs to his training in the past six years, such as small masons a hammer hammer knock, no get rich quick, only ZiZhu accumulated well-grounded, this is the essence of the SAN Antonio spurs team culture, their success from the persistence of the targeted.
The spurs scored 61 wins in the regular season, behind the league's ninth offensive efficiency and defensive efficiency in the league's top spot. Changes in the spurs, Duncan left, parker and ginobili and old age, double became the team's internal and external pillars, but there are some things they did not change, attack the outstanding team, strong team defense, these stayed with the spurs in 20 years. The time that had gone away, the age of the spurs, but also their ease.
Spell it out
The western conference finals game 3, when David - li injured her wheelchair, the SAN Antonio spurs striker, burying his face in at the moment of the heart anguish, may be better than the knee pain. David lee's fall was like a miniature of the spurs in the western conference finals, nfl jerseys cheap, with a very good start and a split second.
The spurs in the playoffs had the toughest test of all, and they faced a grizzly bear in the first round, a team that kept their opponents undead. The spurs had a rocket in the second round, and the rockets ran the rockets. Two of the two opponents of the game, the SAN Antonio spurs have scored 12 games and paid the price of the park season.
The first two round of the playoffs for the SAN Antonio spurs are in trouble to change course, they increase the proportion of singles solve the grizzlies in the first round, the second round of pressure rhythm spell insider beat the rockets. Western conference semifinals game 6, the SAN Antonio spurs in the case of Leonard injured victory over the rockets 39 points, their state of adjustment in place, faintly in the 2014 playoffs, the more the better to hit the SAN Antonio spurs finally come back.
However, the spurs' dream of the season has been shattered by the fact that pachulia has made it difficult to say what it is. When Leonard left the field, the spurs were 23 points ahead of the warriors in the west, and Leonid added 26 points and eight rebounds and 3 assists in 24 minutes. The spurs with control towers inside pressure rhythm, block the passing lanes in the database, Leonard limit Kevin durant, they were killed in this way the rockets, cheap hatsalso successfully in the west should first 20 + points difference, but in Leonard back unthreatening.
The spurs' fans are happy because the team rarely let their fans down, and 20 years of solidity in NBA history are unique. The spurs as if free in time, jump out worldly CARES, and light, a sweeping victory, we have got their powerful, habit to ignore their efforts.
This season the spurs had the very big change, compared to last season, their rotation less dior, less David west, more important is less Duncan, it was the spurs in the past 19 years of giant bo sea purple jade chopstick frame Jin Liang. Although the spurs have aldric, he is not Duncan and will never be Duncan. How could the first big forward be easily copied? The spurs in the era of Duncan play inside and outside, inside outside subsidiary, and in this season is still to play inside and outside, is supplemented in the outside, this is not a simple change.
Leonard rise a surplus huge level data, let us can easily ignore popovich and spurs to his training in the past six years, such as small masons a hammer hammer knock, no get rich quick, only ZiZhu accumulated well-grounded, this is the essence of the SAN Antonio spurs team culture, their success from the persistence of the targeted.
The spurs scored 61 wins in the regular season, behind the league's ninth offensive efficiency and defensive efficiency in the league's top spot. Changes in the spurs, Duncan left, parker and ginobili and old age, double became the team's internal and external pillars, but there are some things they did not change, cheap nfl jerseysattack the outstanding team, strong team defense, these stayed with the spurs in 20 years. The time that had gone away, the age of the spurs, but also their ease.
Spell it out
The western conference finals game 3, when David - li injured her wheelchair, the SAN Antonio spurs striker, burying his face in at the moment of the heart anguish, may be better than the knee pain. David lee's fall was like a miniature of the spurs in the western conference finals, with a very good start and a split second.
The spurs in the playoffs had the toughest test of all, and they faced a grizzly bear in the first round, a team that kept their opponents undead. The spurs had a rocket in the second round, and the rockets ran the rockets. Two of the two opponents of the game, the SAN Antonio spurs have scored 12 games and paid the price of the park season.
The first two round of the playoffs for the SAN Antonio spurs are in trouble to change course, they increase the proportion of singles solve the grizzlies in the first round, the second round of pressure rhythm spell insider beat the rockets. Western conference semifinals game 6, the SAN Antonio spurs in the case of Leonard injured victory over the rockets 39 points, their state of adjustment in place, faintly in the 2014 playoffs, the more the better to hit the SAN Antonio spurs finally come back.
However, the spurs' dream of the season has been shattered by the fact that pachulia has made it difficult to say what it is. When Leonard left the field, the spurs were 23 points ahead of the warriors in the west, and Leonid added 26 points and eight rebounds and 3 assists in 24 minutes. The spurs with control towers inside pressure rhythm, block the passing lanes in the database, Leonard limit Kevin durant, they were killed in this way the rockets, also successfully in the west should first 20 + points difference, but in Leonard back unthreatening.
Concluding: the spurs will return
The spurs were left with regret in this way, but they were able to make the most of their success in the first year of the post-duncan era. In an era of pompous, Wholesale jerseysthe spurs stuck to their basketball beliefs and went west until the last bullet was shot.
"The weak weep with tears, and the strong fight for tomorrow with blood!" For the SAN Antonio spurs 2016-17 season is a polished, they left now, but they will eventually come back, this is the promise of the spurs written in 20 years time, they never break his word.

Monday, May 15, 2017

moment

I spent a lot of time learning an English song and I sang it not badly. It would be better to drive others to do actions with me when I was singing. When I stood in front of the interviewers and interviewees, nfl jerseys cheap, I felt a kind of nervous and managed to introduce myself in English eventually. Because of nervousness, I forget some words.
Unprepared words came to my mind, and I realized it’s hard to express myself freely. That really embarrassed me. I prepared it well in advance but it seemed that I didn’t put my all heart into it.

Next is the process of questioning and answering.
This part made me feel a kind of afraid and I was not confident in my spoken English. Before answering, I seemed to be anxious. At first, I couldn’t understand what she asked and I let her do it again. Actually, that was not difficult and in my beyond. Then she asked : why did you leave your last job?
I said: because my husband is here. If we want to live together, there is one who must give up. So I gave up my job to be here.
I think I should add one point. Another reason is that I really want to jump out of the comfortable zone. The first-tire city can make people more capable and grow up quickly. Even though the house price is so high and there are crowded people everywhere, people who work in the first-tire city don’t flee away.
Besides, cheap hats, the air pollution is so severe that everyone has to wear masks to go out.

For me, I didn’t expect that she would ask my weak strength. I was in panic and never thought about this. Without thinking, I told her I was not good at acting but if I prepared it well in advance, I would do it better.

Then I didn’t talk more about it because I couldn’t think of more right away.

Now I will say: I am lack of creative and often make a plan but fail to plan. For instance, I would like to read 2 books every month and after reading, I need to write an article about it. As a matter of the fact, It took me 3 months to finish 3 books and one review was not written at all.

It’s good to make a plan and I hope to finish it with a strong sense of achievement one day.

At last, I didn’t have a chance to take a written exam.
Compared with them, I am weak in oral English and I didn’t prepare it well before.

Entering the subway, I was still thinking this interview. That company is outstanding and the requirement is also very high. Without getting a position there, I still felt a little lucky to go for a interview. Where I came across serve interviewees, several persons made a deep impression on me.

The pretty girl on my left is very excellent. When she spoke English, all of us were impressed by her elegant London accent. After working, she decided to change herself by going abroad to study. Then she did as she wished.

Another post-90s girl on my right is very affable and easy-going. She is like your neighbor’s girl. Sitting here to wait for the interviewers, she was the first one to talk with others. And her sunshine smile relieve the pressure and make more people begin to talk. Then in a minute, we seemed to be familiar with each other. What's more, cheap nfl jerseys, she is good at explaining her thoughts in a strict logical way. However, I was so naive, compared with her. I knew what she knew but  failed to be like her.

Only at this moment did I realize how much silly I am, because I wasted much time improving my oral English and reading books. You reap what you sow.

Fitness Season

Given the weather more and more hot recently, even reach 30°C today. I heard that some of my friends were complained that she is fatter than before. It is time to keep fitness.They need to show their glamour body when the hot day is coming. Naturally speaking, cheap jerseys, most of us are not taking care of our body, especially in winter. On one hand, we try hard to gain better chance for career every day, time is less for fitness. On the other hand, we still like to stay at home or pull out the phone in the leisure time. That's not in our schedule every week. That's why the disease is becoming younger in the past ten years.Most of us are in sub-health. There is no doubt that this was caused by various reason, insecure foods, working pressure, less fitness and etc. As we all know that there are surrounded by much fitness app and equipment, especially universal TaoBao, we can keep fit at home when we have few time to go gym, there are also much video sample for fitness.I heard a breaking news that another fitness app will be publish in July, cheap nfl hats, it is subversive. No rebound and also get through the inner testing.No matter what it is true or not, when it come to our life, i guess that much of girls will take part in the fantastic party who want to get a curvy figure. My wife told me that she want to have a try although she is in a good fit.It's crazy. Especially the population of Victoria's Secret feast in recent years. There is no doubt that it is beautiful for these angles. Fitness is necessary curse in their daily life. Health is the base for everything.No pain, no gain.

Wednesday, April 26, 2017

a mom and a daughter

A long-time holiday has really passed,nothing changed!In the yard,just one more baby rabbit--a daughter accompanying her mom,which has been one of my expectations.A very warm picture,although they always pillage the food in the other's mouth.Mom seems tenderer now than being pregnant,cheap hats, yeah,much older in rabbits' age and already being a mom.
Cool autumn comes,mosquitoes becomes less and less,everything is better and better.Sometimes I will think of these lovely baby rabbits which have been sent away.I can't forget the occasion of sending the first baby,full of fears,in the small cage, hanged on one handlebar of son's classmate's bike.Tell the truth,very uncomtable in my heart,because it would be very far from me.In the next days,very often,I asked son to inquire about it,I felt so sorry to it.Yet,I am sure knowing less is better for me.Everything is with nature.Other three babies sent to neighbour are very very healthy,sometimes,I will have a look at them quietly.The last two was sent to a home by the neighbour whom I don't know,and I try to ask nothing about them.I think they will be taken good care of as well.
I sometimes wonder what the mom rabbit is thinking?Missing her babies?very happy to see nobody can pillage food with her?still like a quiet and alone life?or she is very happy with a daughter beside her?
Experiencing the life with rabbits,suddenly I find they are the animals which I love best.Simple,clean,quiet,cheap nfl jerseys, timid , very "meng" ,never disturb or bully others.If everyone can do like them,the world will achieve the real peace.However,it is just a dream,chairman Xi's dream,all common people's dream in the world.

familiar but a bit strange

A few students I don't know and most are the ones I have taught before.Most of them have lost their pure smiles,replica oakley sunglasses, appear a bit serious.I know they are trying to adapt to the new environment,even a bit nervous with pressure.They look a bit strange as well.Maybe they have grown up,or they fall far from me now.A few of them,I have taught for three years.It's a rare thing to me.
The year with them of being the mainteacher really brings me a very nice year.Those photos are still kept in my zone,never delete forever.Because we will change,but memories won't.They can stop time.
Today,I mentioned my salary in class,in fact,I am not sure why I would say this.Just to show them that I will try to teach them in spite of low salary.It has exactly effected my enthusiasm in my teaching.However,I must change such a thought,facing such pure and careful faces,how can I do things only thinking of myself?
I have ever tried imagining what I will do in free days after retirement,after serving grandson.If I can still live in this world at that time,nfl jerseys cheap, I would go on to teach English for those who need,charge them no money,free classes.That's a good deed!

Fighting!Jay.

Yesterday,we finished watching The Voice of China until midnight,and even couldn't help going on The True Voice.I broke my former plan once again,cheap jerseys, which led to our getting up too late this morning.These days,without Jay's songs,son can't do homework well.He said that he wouldn't feel sleepy with those songs.Thanks to his doing this,I can enjoy Jay's songs all the time at home,coming back to several years ago,sweet days.
I have nearly listened to all his songs and thought most are perfect.Getting much encouragement and a relaxing mind in his songs,nice song words take to me to a cleaner world.I know he is living more than in one world.No matter whether the song is sad or happy,both are light.Yeah,cheap Oakley sunglasses, we need such days.It's his life experience and music talent that make him special.Especially his ability of fantastic imagination and unawares makes him a secret.
No matter how dark the society is,no matter what the end of the game will be,many are behind him.It is already enough for us to have such a chance to see him so many days.I think no body would care whether he can win,nor would he himself.In fact,nobody can compare with him.His eyes look so deep,really special while he is thinking in sillence.
Such a cool man with a sillent face,but with a delicate feelings,a rich inner world,a kind and strong heart...He is a lovely man with sincerity.
God is fair to everyone.Jay experienced hardships in childhood and pains from a broken family,cheap nfl hats, so he has become out of common,a strong will and take life with a mind different from others in life.But I can understand him,a bit similar.

Friday, April 21, 2017

Feeling so confused before.

We always wanna get the best advice and opinions from someone else while facing confusions.But I am sure one of the most effective ways is to experience.
Now I have understood a bit.cheap nfl hats, The ways of getting on with outsiders are completely different from with family.I thought it was the best to be kind and try to repect others for a good relationship.So I thought scrambling for honors with others,troubling others and profitting at others' expense were the things awful men could do.Undoing those above to win others' respectation was also my thought.Of course,I don't like doing those either.
But now I find what I have done is meanless at all,because others only regard you a timid and a foolish person.Instead,they won't respect you,they will ignore or even bully you.Everything beautiful in my mind suddenly lost all brilliancy.Originally,cheap oakley sunglasses, to get the true respect from others isn't important at all,false politeness is already enough,for a true heart hardly exists between outsiders.So I will never feel sorry or ashamed to any of them from now.
Between family is complely different,we must need true emotions.No pay,no gain.As long as paying,you must gain.Because of love,family come together.Although there are also so many pities in marriages or blood relations,we have no routes of retreat,even never think about those.Because real happiness is from whole hearts.No regrets!In family,true respect and love are the most important.
Put all my experiences together,cheap jerseys, I thought about them carefully today.Now I am clear.I know I am stupid person while getting on with others.I have wasted too much of my true heart.

Feet massage.

Thinking of my last teaching Grade Nine five years ago,when I began having knee problem.Just during the last two weeks,cheap nfl jerseys, when I was about to finish teaching of that year,something wrong was with my knees.I got such bad mood and suffered the pain.Standing in front of the teachers' desk too long made me so uncomfortable,but I kept on.Because my students were my sunshine in work at that time,and it was a great pleasure to have classes with them.Also,only two weeks left,I couldn't leave them alone.Of course,I also dislike to let other colleagues come my home to see me.I hate to trouble anyone.So I persisted in working.I made it.
The next term,I was informed to go to a far primary school to support teaching.I said nothing and kept working,cheap snapbacks, although my knees weren't well at all.Luckily,I met a good headmaster who just gave me very simple work and a cool man teacher who could drive us to work.They will be in my memories all my life,even if we didn't contact again.
Still remembering I couldn't accept husband to massage my feet at the beginning of marriage.Because I thought it was a poor work.After my knees had problem,he offered to massage feet for me.I said it was useless.He told me it would help a lot.So he began from then.
In a second,a whole five years is gone.My knees were almost well.It means that husband has massaged feet for me for five years.Son from primary to junior high school.However,cheap replica oakleys, everything warm never changed.He still likes dancing funnily like a kid around the house.Son is still doing his homework very carefully beside me,merely becomes much cooler.I say to myself never afraid of difficulties outside,because I have had enough.

Now,husband says he seems to have something undone if he hasn't massaged feet for me every day.And I have already got into a habit of being massaged by him.He says he will go on doing that for me as long as his hands have strength.I have always thought I am one the the most happiest woman having warm husband and son.We use heart to communicate with each other,while home is our most substantial castle.
Having the most love from parents when small,and now being a queen of family.I have got the love from my most important persons in the world,wholesale nfl jerseys, so now,I feel like having the whole world.

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

you can boost your self-confidence if you fill your bucket full

Nobody is perfect; everyone has his or her own strengths or weaknesses. It all related to your attitude being positive or negative, which makes a huge difference between high or low self-esteem.

There are some interesting cases:

Some lucky ones are excellent for being themselves. However, they are stuck by their family background, which are poor or parents break-up relationship.

Actually, why don’t you think from positive side, you could be  more independent than anyone else who have to reply on their parents for having a good job sort of, cheap oakley sunglassesor you could be stronger for coping with difficulties as you have experienced the worst time in your life.

 Probably you should be very proud of yourself that one day you could use your talents for changing the life of yourself rather than waiting and complaining how bad fortune you’ve got.


Also some people were born of competitive disadvantages, they could not change the situation, but they could change their attitude for being a very different person.

I know quite a few guys in my dancing place, surprisingly; they are shorter than me, which means they are shorter than 160cm. I can tell from their facial expression and the way they treat women, some guys are worried about their height very much, they are too scared to invite a girl dance like most normally height guys do. But a few guys practice dancing very hard, in the end they dance with girls with self-confidence.

I was very impressed by one man, my god, he might be the shortest Aussie I have ever seen, must be 155cm below I guess, but I felt he was the centre, the prince of the night in the dancing hall as he invited all the pretty girls danced with no hesitation, which was full of self-confidence. Quite a lot of handsome tall guys with poor dancing skills couldn’t compete with him at all.

How powerful  positive thinking was as he focused on his strengths, cheap jerseyswhat he could make it better by using his own effort ( good dancing skill, perfect body shape ( being gym or exercises) rather than the one he could never change(height).



And also one thing catches my attention. In China, generally speaking, a high-educated girl won’t marry a guy who has only completed high school education unless he’s very rich. A guy with a blue collar job might be too scared to chase up a girl who works in the office.

However, in Australia, marriage won’t be judged by what qualifications you’ve got. An electrician or a plumber is very easily getting married with a pretty high educated girl who works in the office. As the buys won’t be told: “You are useless, you are nothing and you are nobody” by the whole society just because they are not entering the Uni, but definitely are very capable of doing practical work.



Again in China, a lot of students are living under the negative environment, as they have been taught that if they couldn’t enter into a famous uni, they are doomed to be a looser. Not only from the teachers but also they get that impression from family members and friends.



I know it is extremely hard for you to stand up by telling yourself that you have your own special talent apart from study and being a good student. But if you can’t see the strengths of yourself, if you can’t convince yourself that you have talents to the society, how can you change your fate? And no one else can help you except yourself.

Therefore, fill your bucket full with positive thinking, pay attention to what you’ve got rather than you haven’t, focus on your strengths rather than weaknesses, which is essential for you live with high self-confidence and being successful.

once

  I once read a article with its title " thanks for giving me windy joy".
    Initially, i was confused about windy joy, wholesale nfl jerseys, the joy likes the breeze, so fast and light which you are incapable of holding.
    What kind of windy joy could be?  Actually, in-depth, it is not the joy, it expresses the pain containing the unwillingness forced to be undertake.
    Thanks for giving me windy joy which means thanks for exposing the extreme truth for not being with me. It leaves too much to once filled longing, but at last paralleling is the best way.
    What kind of author in such a way to roundly amplify its emotion?
    I once left a sigh to it. What i thought was if it had been in vain, it would have better been unhappened.
    But now, with the aging and experience, i think the author is brave in which to see through the fact and accept it. Nothing is pitiful cau the objective truth is there.
    Thanks for giving me windy joy which tears up the faint beauty once being whitewashed by you.
    Thanks for giving me windy joy, cheap nfl hats, the breeze is gone.

A copy of good presentation

   Sometimes, we need own the ability of making a copy of good presentation to boss or customer to tell them what you want to express. I thought it should be easy before I did a copy of presentation to big boss. Actually, cheap snapbacks, it's not easy job when I started to prepare it, because I didn't catch what was really big boss expected within a short time. I just did this according my understanding and I was a little confused what kind of data and what style of presentations I should present during the whole process. What's more, due to I wanted to show more information that made the presentation losing the key point which it should have. When I finished it, I was not happy with it. Not to mention, it will win the favor of the boss. To be frank, it's not a copy of eligible presentation to me.
    With the concept of one of predecessors, if you take more concentration on how to complete the job in hand and neglect how to present it to your boss, you will possible lose the opportunity of getting promotion. It's the reason why some people who didn't more professional skills can get more chance getting promotion than others. It's because they can make a copy of wonderful representation or report. I'm not sure these words whether it's right or not, cheap replica oakleys, but, I believe it certainly has a point.

about moment


I stayed late at yesterdy night. When i was ready to sleep at over 12 pm. It was suddenly rainning heavily. I closed the window. And I made some final ready and I went to bed and I quickly fell asleep too.

Today I do not feel tired even I did not sleep enough hours last night. Right now I sit in the offcie. I find there is sunshine outside when I glance at outside from the window. The opposite side is mountain, The mountain looks more green and brightness under the sunshine. Wow I feel confortable and fresh at this moment.

The secret why I feel good at this moment, cheap nfl jerseys, it is because today is friday. Another weekend comes too.

I have a wish, my grandfather is in the hospical now. I hope he can recover soon. I know my late grandmother will pray for my grandfather too.

Sunday, April 16, 2017

The most horrible ghost story

Three years ago, I am a person who just graduated from the university, and went to Beijing to find a job. The first thing to do after I have arrived was to find a place to live. Fortunately, cheap oakleys, I found an apartment which was clean and good. And the apartment was completely self-contained. At first, I felt so lucky to find such a high quality and inexpensive apartment, but as time goes on, I felt so uncomfortable about the strange expression on my neighbors' faces.
Three months later, I have an affinity for the majority of my neighbors and we always talked for quiet a few matters. One day, one of my neighbors told me that before I moved in, there was a couple that living in the apartment. But in course of time, the couple had a fight before they married, what is more, the woman disappeared. Within a matter of days, the man embellished the room again and moved out. Therefore, they all thought the man killed the woman and secondarily put his girlfriend in the wall.
I felt so frightened that night, when I lied on the bed and started at the wall, I can even see a body in the wall vaguely. I felt more and more scared, and I can't help to find a hatched to break the wall. I hit the wall again and again. Finally,cheap jerseys, there was a hole. I took heart of grace and looked through the hole, and I saw an eye!
 After that, I saw a mouth!
 Finally the mouth opened and said, "why did you break my wall, my neighbor?"

The nightmare

I have dreamed many dreams in the course of my growth which would be joyful, unpleasant even terrible. However, until now, I can only remember few dreams. The nightmare which impressed me deeply will never be forgotten.
That day,wholesale jerseys, I got a fever and went to bed early. Then I encountered the terrible stroy which was about my mom. The world in my dream is black-and-white. I found that my mom passed away because of a car accident when I returned home from school. All of my family members were in deep sadness. At that moment, I totally had no idea, even didn't know how to cry out. I was shocked and seemed to fall in a faint. Suddenly, I clearly saw my mom was standing by the door, looking at all of us. I crazily rushed towards her, tried to hug her, but to find that I couldn't touch her, what's worse, she was translucent. I told my family, "Look at my mom and she is over there." But nobody believed me for the reason that they couldn't see her. Everyone thought that I had lost my mind!
Suddenly, the sense shifted and I dropped into the water,cheap fake oakleys, losing my voice and power. There were many snacks with many heads in the water and they tried to enwound and swallowed me. But unexpectedly, I saw my mom and we were playing in the garden and flying a kite. Then the sense transferred again. This time was on my bed when I was lying on the bed with my mom. She said, "Baby, this is the last time I accompany you and I have to leave." Until this moment, I knew that my mom had gone. When she finished her words, she began to fade away. I tried my best to clutch her, but it was useless; I wanted to cry out, but everything was silent. From that moment, I realized that I lost my mom forever.With my scream and tears, I awaked.
This is the most clear nightmare I can still remember. I never think about losing my mom. But when I came into reality,cheap snapback hats, I was released. At the moment of seeing my mom, I knew that it was a delightful day. The only word that I expect to say was everything would be all-right, tomorrow would be fine.

How I become a Russian

"How I become a Russian" is a Russian comedy which tells a story that an American journalist's life in Russia. Actually,cheap nfl jerseys, I don't know its English name, so I just translate its Chinese name to English.
The hero, Alex, is sent to Russia because of work. As a typical American, his views of world are refreshed by Russian every day. When two different cultures meet each other, a lot of funny things happen. And you never guess what will happen in the next moment.
The most interesting thing for me is that Russian's impression of themselves is quiet the same as my impression of them. Russian girls are pretty beautiful.Russian dama is badass. Whenever they disagree with each other,cheap hats, they begin to fight.
Anyway, it deserves to watch. This TV program describes the Russian people's daily life from an American perspective and you can also learn many things about Russia from this TV program. As we say" Earth becomes smaller and smaller". It's necessary to us to know other culture proactively.

Wednesday, April 12, 2017

I have been made redundant from my workplace

Yesterday, An Aussie guy suggested me write an article regarding how life is like punishment to many people after he had a car accident and do not get along well with his girlfriend,cheap mlb hats, he’s suffering most of the time.

I just didn’t tell him that I am also experiencing hardship.

The day before yesterday, my lady boss started crying when she came into the office early in the morning.

“Why? She’s such a strong, tough and independent woman, there must be a reason.”

In a while, she said: “I am so sorry, we lost contract; so you guys can either find a new job from now on or get redundancy payment if you can’t find one by Christmas.”

What? All the people in accounts department will lose job including operations managers, some of them who have been working here for more than 17 years.

Australia’s economy is getting worse,cheap oakley sunglasses, our company from 90 sites, to 60 ,30 and now almost all gone.

I told my manager: “No worries, I’ll be all right.”

“I know, I would like stay in this company as I am used to it, there are a lot of flexibilities, I can arrange holidays or take days off when my family comes over, the accounting system is pretty organized and people are nice, financial controller is very helpful.”

“But we have to face the reality as there’s no choice.”

“Wow, you are too positive, you make me feel much better.” my boss lady said and another colleague added: " Sweetolive has never got worries.”

“No, that’s not the truth, of course, I have a lot of worries, but I know how to change my attitude.”

10 years ago, I worried everything and I had no idea how to get over it.

I worried if I failed exams, then I couldn’t complete a degree on time.

I worried if I failed IELTS, then I had no enough points to reach PR requirements.

I always worried PR policy be changed, so I checked the website often, because if I couldn’t apply PR, then I had to go back China.

The rest of the time, I worried whether I could find a job after I complete a degree in the Uni as I was older than most of the others.

I simply couldn’t focus on the present life, worried too much about the future.

A few days ago I received an email from one American author, he said: “ I’ve not published anything since May and I’d like to get back on track because running this blog positively affects my productivity and positivity.”

Yes, that’s exactly what I would like to say, reading and writing have given me positive effects, that’s the main thing I have gained from Englishpassion.

Be a benefit- finder
Make a game of finding something positive in every situation. Ninety-five percent of your emotions are determined by how you interpret events to yourself.
 -         Brian Tracy –

I have just extended the time be on holiday in China from January to February next year.

I also discussed with my family that we might have a 4 to 5 weeks’ trip to some place really far from Shanghai, which would be impossible if I keep the job.

And that was a big dream I had for a long time,cheap nfl jerseys, now it can be realized from losing a job, not bad.

Create your future
Nothing is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings.
  – Ralph Blum –

For the past few years, I was always tried to find a new job, but because of holidays to China, and scared of whether it will be worse or better for changing a new one, so I got stuck.

Then I completed stopped looking since I started writing as there are a lot of free time can be used.

But now things are changing, I have to find a new job even I don’t want to.

Previously, I was only looking for a full-time permanent position, but now I don’t care casual, part-time or temporary job as I like to deal with different kinds of people, experiencing up and down, which is essential for writing.

One can never be a good writer if live in a fantasy world, without getting redundancy, I don’t think there’s an opportunity for me write an article like the one I posted today.

Accept reality and act on it
Face reality as it is, not as it was or as you wish it to be
 --- Jack Welch  ---

One our operations manager, a very hard worker, who enjoys working so much and being very responsible, but she has the same fate as everyone else- being made redundant.

She has no choice, even the boss don’t have the choice.

I saw one colleague was playing games on the mobile, I asked: “Have you written your resume for a new job?”

“Not yet, too stressed.”

“Haha, I think it better starts from now on, because a good opportunity doesn’t come often.

If there’s a really good job which suits you most, then it is better going for the job than getting the money from the company and leave.”

“For me, I have already bought an airplane ticket to Shanghai, so I have to wait until the end.”

But once I am back, I will be more active, preparing resume and interview questions, practicing software to a better level, eg, EXCEL.

Apply for any job by sending as many emails as I can, I don’t mind a casual job as I said I love to communicate with different people.

The rest of the time, I will do the reading, writing, swimming, dancing, running and jogging etc, just for a healthy lifestyle.

It doesn’t mean you lose a job, you don’t deserve a good lifestyle and do the things you love, actually, you have more time to do things really matters to you.

Everyone will experience hardship, however, if we change our attitude, we can perceive difficulty as a challenge, see the glass as half full; then we still enjoy the moment during that period and make full use of the time.

One day, we will become stronger with self-confidence as we know how to deal with difficulties and being more understandable for the person who has the same trouble as us.

Wish me good luck.

something about lan shou xiang gu

I browsed micro-blog the other day and I found an interesting topic on the Hot Search.It's 'lan shou xiang gu' which is derived from a boy's video.The guy is from NanNing city,GuangXi province where the people always can't confound 'nan shou' with 'lanshou ' as well as 'xiang ku' with ' xiang gu'.'nan shou' means feeling unwell while 'xiang gu' shows somebody want to cry.That is to say a new cyberspeak were created.What makes this topic educative is a comment from People's Daily.It criticized such phenomenon which the increasing of cyberspeak in peoples life decreases useness of those exquisite poetry is a morbidity.Chinese characters is so profound that it can not only created beautiful sentences but also those funny jokes.I had a glance at the hot comment of this microblog and I feel so amazed that there are always lots of 'keyboard men' giving harsh words,wholesale jerseys, Someone comment that People's Daily just want to manifest its status as the organ of the Chinese communist party.How ridiculous such comments are!Why are there more and more harsh words online today?Cause peolple are too idle?Sometimes I think maybe too many concentrations we give to famous star and too many cyberspeak we created are not always right.After all things will develop in the opposite direction when they become extreme.

Cambodia trip part four

We were going to leave Cambodia at the Nov 1st, Gona finishing our 9 days holiday, So Anita and Mr. Xu would like to have a welfare party at home for us, home party normally it is the highest hospitality way to welcome our guests, another reason for the party was Mrs Xu was coming from China to visit her husband at the day, so the welcome and welfare party together will have at one day before leave,cheap jerseys, It was the Halloween Day, how amazing the day we have.
The building we live is near the Mei Gong River, so the evening view is wonderful sight from the top building. Mr. Xu was the organizer for this party, the dumpling for sure was the most favorite foods for oversea guys, He has occupied the 11 floor where is the garden balcony with the table, chinaware, and wine glasses, in the afternoon he has asked the chefs did the pork and shrimp already, we were happy to invite other key person Ms. Zhou who is the president of the one company as well. It was almost 6 pm,cheap snapback hats, we were following Mr. Xu issues starting our preparation.
This evening there was another group table they are from European friend for the Halloween day, they were hand carry their own drinks got together here. Red Wine, fresh fruits which I don’t know the name, cold dish has been put on the table; Anita took her sound system from the room to be the back ground music, the dumpling was ready, this was really a big family, the cheers, laughing and dancing have been covered all the nice evening, I was so happy to know some new friends here,fake oakley sunglasses, the pictures we did will bring me a lot recalls for the day in Cambodia, I love here, I will come again for sure.

Monday, March 6, 2017

When You Are Doing Business

It is well known that the manufacture industrial is bad in 2016 and it is not a strange thing to witness the bankrupt situation for some factories. Numerous corporation should have to find a good solution to resolve this tricky situation.

As far as our factory is concerned, our top management reduce the worker and dismiss some office management position. Even for the production workers and QC workers are in the dismiss name lists. In some extent, cheap mlb hats sounds cruel by doing this, but to put us in the boss’s shoe, we can fully understand it is not easy to operate a company and they are under great pressure. As office clerk, we just have to responsible for our job task only and get the corresponding salary from the company we are working for. Maybe we do not have strong feeling that the more pressure for our boss than us.

We should be careful when you are negotiate new orders with your cheap oakley sunglasses. If we are not take an alert, we should have to lose some money and have to buy their lessons. When a new clients decide to place an order with you, be careful for the blow mentioned situation.

1)    Big order quantity and with less deposit
At the first, when you negotiate with the client, cheap mlb jerseys seems that they do not have high standard with your product. They place larger order quantity with you, but refuse to transfer too much deposit money before the mass production. You thought that it was a big order and arrange production without hesitation, after you finished them. They are very picky after the pre-shipment inspection. And they pointed out that this or that quality problems that cannot accept. And even worst, if you do not reduce the cheap nba jerseys price, they will reject the whole lot of goods. For all clients, after we deal with the official order, we should send our specific quality standard to our clients for reference. To make sure that every aspects for our existing product is meet with client’s requirements.
2)    Set too high quality standard and too low prices
This type of customers always set extremely high quality standard for their supplier. They will compare the price to a lot of factories. Maybe they have found some supplier first, but cannot their requirements. The next one they have found is you, they ask for free of charge samples, and bring forward some unreasonable requests, if you are facing this kind of nfl jerseys cheap, be more careful. They want every products to be perfect and no supplier can actually satisfy them.
3)    The delivery date and quality standard is unclear
Your clients place an order with you, but when you finished the mass production and request them to pick cargoes up from your factory. But even your client is not clear about the specific delivery date, it is a ridiculous thing. If the cargoes stays in your warehouse for a long time, I am afraid it will bring some storage charge which your factory should have to take responsible for cheap nhl jerseys.
4) The lead time is very urgent
This kind of clients are usually cooperate with the same industrial factory like you do, and they are not satisfy with them, especially for the quality control. Therefore, they discontinue to cooperate with them. But they have to finish the order for their cheap ncaa jerseys, they have to find the next supplier to meet with their demands. Once you have some quality issue, they would request you to make some discounts, otherwise they will cancel the cheap soccer jerseys order.
5) Reluctant to make the deposit money
When you ask them to pay the deposit money, they do not get money available at hand. They would said that they will pay money when they got payment from their clients. Oh my god, the business is between you and me, why I should know your relationship with your clients? If you do not get enough money for cheap nfl snapback hats business, what is the point of negotiating business? It is meaningless thing indeed and waste a lot of time.
6) Lots of middle man
The direct result of too many middle man is to lead to high product cost for the end users. Yes, the middle man have to share a part of profit from the cheap nba hats orders. For this kind of order, they usually set too high quality for manufactures once happen some problems, the manufactures may loss some money.

Changing myself

Sometimes, I am not satisfied with myself especially when I try my best to complete a concrete case. Most of time, I think I failed to live up to the expectations or just can realize cheap jerseys partly of expectation of myself. So I feel a little disappointment based on my performance, what's more, as the growth of age, I fear to try something new more and more and prefer to keep something what I am familiar with. I know it's not a good trend to me, I should keep on going to pursue cheap snapback hats for better tomorrow. But, I discover that making a change is not an easy thing, especially without pressure from outside. I am used to this kind of regular way of life every day so that I can't make changes for fake oakley sunglasses. Everything we did just follow up what I had done, didn't need to take more carefully just repeated day in and day out. The passion of working is fading under this situation, sometimes, I ask myself what's wrong with me, why I am not ambition to continue something what I am supposed to complete. It's because I lack the determination and persistence. I am easy to find kinds of reasons and excuses saying I am not prepared and need some more time and better method to learn something new.
What a stupid excuse! But, actually, wholesale jerseys happened on me every day, meanwhile, if I continue to ignore this situation, maybe I will be fired when the benefit of the company goes down one day. Definitely, it's not what I want to see.

Wednesday, March 1, 2017

The festival is approaching.

I am used to buy the festival things ,such as candy, beverage, biscuit in the local shop. But I may change to order these by Tmall or Jingdong. I think it would be more convenient for me.
 
Indeed, shopping in the supermarket  by the real estate or by the cheap hats shop, the price is not much different for the items which i mentioned above.  For foods like beverage, milk, spring water, biscuit, the first concernning for me is the date. shopping on the web shop, it may be not easy for me to know the product date even sometimes the wholesale jerseys shop owner will give the notice for the date. Most of the time, I need to find the help by the comments for the previous buyers. Otherwise, the advantage for the on-line shopping is the convenience and time saving.
 
The material is much sufficient. So I think it does not make sence to buy a lots of cheap oakley sunglasses for the festival. I think few and enough is good.
 
Surely the most happyness thing is that we got the chance for family members to stay together to have a talk or have a tea drink, in the process which will share a lot of cheap Kids Hats stories for the last whole year and the plan or expectation for the new year too.
 
Indeed, the most warmest for the festival is like such. The staying and the communication is the most warmest thing. Home is always the warmest harbor for the travellers.

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Hope that everything will still go on smoothly.

After half year of working outside I finally decide to start my new career with my elder sister. Actually I have started to plan my own career from the beginning of my cheap oakley sunglasses when I first graduated from the school. At first I joined my sister’s team, at first everything go smoothly but after some time their wholesale jerseys business met some difficulties and the team need new thoughts and creativity so I decide to go out for learning the new method to run the company. The second reason that I decided to go out is that I felt that I am always protected by others when I work in my sister’s team and this will easily weaken my will to fight. So finally I decided to work outside it turns out that my decision is right, although I work in a small company I learned a lot, not only gain the cheap hats work ability but also let me form good habits. Now we have already started our own new career by now everything is smoothly, hope that everything will still go on smoothly.